Friday, January 30, 2009
Lucy Pevensie, Hermoine Granger and Suzy Chapstick present....Friday
Monday, January 26, 2009
Thoughts running through my head
I will attempt, in my small way, to share what's been touching me, hitting me and otherwise making me think lately. These things combine to make sense to me - I don't know whether it will fully make sense to you.
You see, a short while ago I did something that has now put me in touch with people I've not had contact with in a long time. 20-25 years long time. It's a strange feeling. I'm as introverted on the computer as I can be in person so I feel a bit vulnerable in having reached out this way.
When you think of your past, especially those High School or University days, do you focus on the fun or the not so fun?
I tend to be quite critical of myself - Bart can attest to the fact I can give myself my own best beating. I have a tendency to focus on things I should have done differently/better, instead of what I did well. I worried very much about what people thought. Legalism really got in the way and I didn't understand at the time it was that (legalism)which I rebelled against. (fyi background info. on me - I went to Christian schools from Kgarten to 12th grade not knocking Christian schooling, just had some issues with certain things that would take forever to explain) Not that I rebelled very hard, but for me it was real. And through that time, I lost touch with people for various reasons. Finding it hard to turn back once the 'reasons' no longer existed.
So that is something I've been mulling over.
OK- switch gears a little. Our Bible study this year is "A Heart Like His" - a study of King David. Last week we discussed the passage in 2 Samuel where David and the Israelites are returning the Ark of the Covenant to Jerusalem and I'll share these bits which add to my thoughts:
vs.14 - 16 "And David was dancing before the Lord with all his might, and David was wearing a linen ephod. So David and all the house of Israel were bringing up the ark of the Lord with shouting and the sound of the trumpet. Then it happened as the ark of the Lord came into the city of David that Michal the daughter of Saul (also David's wife) looked out of the window and saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord; and she despised him in her heart."
vs. 20 - 22 "But when David returned to bless his household, Michal the daughter of Saul came out to meet David and said, "How the king of Israel distinguished himself today! He uncovered himself today in the eyes of his servants maids as one of the foolish ones shamelessly uncovers himself!" So David said to Michal, "It was before the Lord, who chose me above your father and above all his house, to appoint me ruler over the people of the Lord, over Israel; therefore I will celebrate before the Lord. And I will be more lightly esteemed than this and will be humble in my own eyes, but with the maids of whom you have spoken, with them I will be distinguished."
OK - so Michal tries to get King David to be ashamed of his actions but he said, forget it, I'm not out there to impress you, I'm out there to impress God. So that started us (ladies) on a discussion of how we worship God and are we inhibited in our worship because of the people around us? Is it personality? Culture? Church denomination?
Which then brought me around to those thoughts about the past. There were several blog posts that also touched me along this realm and really helped round out my thoughts. My mom said that each season of life brings new reflection and new ways of looking at life.
All of the above allows me to make a conclusion re: those thoughts: Life has led me down some wonderful roads and I am foolish to even for a moment, look back and think of the far past critically. Except for learning :). My path is my own and God has been so faithful. I am not the person I was 20 years ago and I'm ever so thankful I have grown much in that time. To reconnect with people I enjoyed from the past and have fun with it. To have friendships that are enduring and experience worship in a way that is meaningful between me and my Creator. If others are worshiping alongside - Wonderful. But my worship does not depend on them and I am not dependent on what they think about my worship. (Unless it happens to be a Sunday I'm leading worship and then it's a whole 'nother ballgame)
"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Thy sight, O Lord, my rock and my Redeemer." Psalms 19:14
Bart would have me put this in the "deep thoughts" category :).
Friday, January 23, 2009
Finishing up Oman
What I did with my free afternoon was clean the kitchen (exciting I know!) and then download the remaining pic's of Oman that I wanted to share. I don't think I can go forward with the Blog 'til I finish Oman. It's an illness - I know. I need help.
So, where we left off was night-time in the Desert. Here is Kendra enjoying the music of an Omani man who shows up quite blurry in the right side of this pic. I don't like using flash too much at night if there's enough light BUT, of course, anything that moves becomes a blur. I was trying not to blind everyone with my flash - unlike the people from another country I won't name but who's language I attempt to speak (not Switzerland - cause we know I can't speak their language). Sorry, I know that sounds a little catty but several times during the trip it happened enough where we and our guide found it a bit much.That night, the girls had insisted they would sleep in "their" tent alone. Bart and I had mixed feelings: safe country but out in middle of nowhere, electric generators go off at 10pm, yes - we did get 'torches' (flashlights) for the girls, visions of girls crying for us in middle of night and waking everyone within a 300 ft radius (the whole camp), they were the ONLY children out there - hmmmmmm.
We humored them, said goodnight and left with promises to check on them in 10 minutes after we were ready for bed ourselves. Between their tent and ours, we had already decided to split up - Bart with Rachel and Kendra with me. First we would give them "time" by brushing teeth, etc... Bart had no sooner picked up his toothbrush when we heard sand shuffling outside and Rachel bursts in saying "Kendra's crying and scared and doesn't want to sleep alone." Kendra follows - panicked. Bart & I were laughing as I tucked Kendra into our bed and he went to get the "things" she needed for sleeping.
We then laughed the next morning as it got pretty cold in the middle of the night. I used Kendra as a teddy bear - fortunately, she slept solid during the night. BTW - the stars in the middle of the night were beyond spectacular and had to say a little prayer of thankfulness for such beauty to our Creator.
Next morning - after a good breakfast and nice COLD shower for Bart we headed out of the Dunes. Time for a little more dune-bashing. In this pic, we are headed straight down a very large hill - sliding every so gently. Salah had some fun by "washing" the car with sand.
OK - now I'm done with the longest post ever. I can move on to other things.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Some posts I've liked this week
A well written post on avoiding "modern day Pharisee-ism" : http://livingproofministries.blogspot.com/2009/01/i-came-across-this-lengthy-quote-by.html
'pharisee-ism' isn't a word - made that one up!
And my (former DJ) bro-in-law has a thoughtful mix over at Kris & Jason (in my sidebar) - Jan. 12 post.
Last but not least is my blog friend Linds: http://lindslangdon.blogspot.com/2009/01/world-can-be-scary-place.html
I am thinking many deep thoughts lately but can't seem to write anything down - so I'll share the deep thoughts of others - Enjoy.
I took a break
We had a great visit. It was just a visit - no skiing, mountain climbing/hiking - just shopping, eating and spending time as a family. As she's coming back in February to stay with the girls and I during Ski Week (and yes, there will be some skiing done that trip!), we had her load up at Target and Walmart for us. She checked 2 bags coming over and her own packing only took up about 25% of the space. She had only 1 bag to check going home.
I think the most popular items with the girls were the 'fruit by the foot' (which I think are nasty and just one good reason to have a limited snack selection here - go ahead and BOO me, I don't care) and the giant box of Fruit Loops. Bart and I were happy with our Crest toothpaste, stash of Dayquil capsules - and a last minute request granted: a Costco size pack of AA batteries. AA batteries run about $.85 per battery here so we were thrilled to get a big, cheap pack. It's the little things we are content with.
The girls and I watched the Inauguration together last night - very convenient with the time difference. Rachel was very interested and asked a lot of questions about Obama's speech. In particular: "Mom, when he said that kids are failing in the schools, does he mean he'll tell the teachers to give them (kids) more time to finish their tests?" Oh that it were that simple. We've had some good discussion (civil rights, freedom of speech and voting, right to disagree but still be respectful, praying for our Nation's leaders) and it has given a sense of pride and community/history to the American students at the school. They (US students) miss out on some of that by being so removed physically - we have to take the time to give them that sense of community.
So another week begins (even though it's Wed. :) and I continue to try and catch up with 2009. I know the Bloggy info. has been a bit dry lately. I am really working on how much time I spend on the computer. There are other things: laundry, photo's, bathrooms, grocery shopping (ugg), bible study, worship schedules, skiing; that are calling my name and the computer has been too compelling in the last few months. So I am setting boundaries. And learning to work better within them. Which means I need to go now.......... :)
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
the Wahiba Sands
We love sand and sunsets so we found ourselves having a very special day into evening last week.
The desert floor with the Wahiba Sands/Dunes rising in the distance. This stretch of sandy sea measures 200km by 100km. Not a place you want to be stuck in during the summer when it's 50C (I forgot to convert to F - around 120 - 125 I think). Here we are driving up to the Sands after the village pit-stop to let air out of the tires. Everyone driving into the dunes stops along this road at the entry point and has the tire pressure decreased in order to drive in the thick sand. Makes sense. Little did we know yet how much 'driving' we'd be doing.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Another day in Oman
Monday, January 12, 2009
My head is swirling
Many tourists to Oman primarily go to resorts that are set up along the coast and taking day trips here and there for shopping/touring. The temperatures were 25 - 30 C while we were there and it is a huge draw for cold Europeans during winter (primarily heard UK, German & Russian during our stay) months.
Before we headed to a resort for sun and relaxation, we spent 3 1/2 days with an Omani guide, Salah, and traveled through a portion of their Country. Oman is bigger than Switzerland but the population size is only approx. 2.5 - 3 mill. (depends on who you ask). One third of the population lives in the capital city of Muscat - a port city. Until the 1970's, when Sultan Qaboos came into power, Oman was relatively closed to the rest of the world. Fact - in 1970, there was only 10 km of sealed (asphalt) road in the country. A very conservative and struggling country. Since then, the Sultan and the people have worked hard to bring the Country into the 21st Century and it is evident in the roads, hospitals, schools and ministry buildings - everything is relatively new, efficient and they embrace technology while trying to preserve their culture and heritage.
OK - enough of the history lesson today.
Random thoughts/experiences re: our trip:
- We grew to enjoy the smell of Frankincense in the air (80% of Frankincense comes from Oman)
- the Dates - tasty!
- Omani coffee - a blend of arabica beans, cardamom and rose water - delightful if you like trying different coffees. I do - and Bart drank some to be respectful with the other men - His first coffee ever! Drinking it in a Bedouin tent and at the Muscat fish market - in little porcelain tea cups rinsed out in warm water. I don't know whose germs were on there but it would have been rude to refuse our hosts.
- Ladies - take your own tissues/TP for the toilet. Only in hotel and/or museum facilities will it be available. And wearing a skirt is better than pants. I never thought to take a pic of a potty there - a whole blog in itself! Anyhoo - they were typically what the girls call a 'squat potty' - not a seat but porcelained floor potty with a hose bidet for 'rinsing'. Believe it or not - there are countries that find the use of TP to be unhygenic and backwards. Enough of that.
- an old Omani man touching my arm in the Souk (market) and holding out his hand without looking at me. As an Omani man would not touch a woman without her permission (they only shook my hand if I offered it), I figured he really needed some Rial. I won't forget how that felt.
- watching my girls dress in Bedouin clothes and how beautiful they looked
- looking at all the differences in dress - the men in their neat, clean dishdasha's (white or earth toned) with caps/turbans and the women in everything from black decorated abeyas to colorful wraps to full abeya w/ birka (face veil). There were many degrees of dress if you took the time to look. And in the heat/sun, being all covered up in loose, light clothing makes a lot of sense.
First stop on our tour: Birkat al-Mawz (Banana pool). A pretty village of date palms, banana and mango trees. We drove through on our way up to the Jebel Akhdar (green mountain) area where we spent our 2nd night. The mountains themselves are not green - it refers to the areas below which support a variety of agriculture during the cooler months when rain accumulates in the wadis and terraces.
In the Nizwa Fort - traditional pottery and chests found in many homes. The New Year dessert buffet our first night. We stayed at a hotel by the airport, got rested and acclimated before the touring began. It was quite a feast and the girls enjoyed the New Year noisemakers and party hats they were given. The desserts? We had to force ourselves to stop!
The Nizwa Souk: we were so overwhelmed by all the items here. We did buy Bart's khanjar (a traditional Omani curved dagger) and Omani outfits for the girls here. I need to go back though - they had things that I didn't find in the Mutrah Souk!!!
Rachel looking over Nizwa from one of the Fort rooftops. More later. It's Bart's Bday and I need to bake a cake. Happy 4-th Birthday Honey!!!!!!
Saturday, January 10, 2009
We brought them home....
I am trying to sort through all the pic's and get laundry done.
What an absolutely unique experience - we were sorry to see it end. It was great to have a full get away. Bart especially needed it and hopefully is fully refreshed as he has to jump back into work with both feet on Monday. We didn't even have email while we were gone. I'm sure we could have paid for it at the hotel(s) but it was nice to be fully disconnected for a while.
I know I said I wouldn't bore you all with Oman when we got back but, too bad, life is back to school and housework and our trip was full of so many different experiences that it is all I will have to share this next week. We feel really fortunate to have had the opportunity to go and hope you will enjoy reading about the experience and enjoying some pictures this next week.
Happy New Year!!!!!