It's true. Although I did spend a few hours on the beach with my book as a break one afternoon.
BUT, I live really, really far away from my sister and basically wanted to spend my time with them and help as much as possible. We both laughed/cried at the end of my visit - feeling like we could have/should have done more for each other.
I think we did.
I held, fed, changed babies, ate waffles with T every morning, played Barbies, read books, walked down the block with the boys, took pictures, ran an errand or two, visited in the waiting room together, stayed with babies so Deb & Neti could see a movie!, helped Deb with several projects and tried to make myself useful.
She let me do all of that! It was my pleasure. AND - I never cooked! So that was like a total vacation for me. OK, I put waffles in the toaster and heated up a ramen bowl in the microwave.
Thank you Debbie and Neti for sharing your family and your life with me for 8 days!
I miss them all and look forward to next year when we'll all be together for the twins 1st Birthday party (Hawaiian custom).
I'm very happy to be home with my own family now though. I missed them very, very much but was also thankful that things went so smoothly without me present. The girls are capable of so much now and armed with schedules, frozen meals and washing machine instructions, Bart was set. We also had some great help from several individuals re: carpool/babysitting - thanks to all involved.
I will catch up more over the next couple of days and add pic's. Unfortunately, my souvenir from the trip was a sinus/ear infection. I suspected it before I left (didn't let it slow me down) but was unwilling to sit for most of my last day in a clinic so flew home with plugged ears and burning sinuses. Didn't do myself any favor with that but was able to see the Dr. first day back and he 'apologetically' gave me antibiotics. Still waiting for them to kick in so am a bit slow......
And by late afternoon/evening, I just want to SLEEP!!! I adjusted pretty quick to the 12 hr time difference in HI but it could have been all the excitement of being there and helping. Now that I'm home, and things are in great shape (I did a lot of 'stuff' before I left), I find myself just wanting to sleep by dinner time.
So that's what is happening in my world at the moment. Bart is back to regular days at work now that I'm here, Kendra is adjusting well to her school schedule and Rachel is actually on her class trip to the mountains this week. She also turned 12 this week. 12!! Happy Birthday sweet girl.
Wednesday, September 01, 2010
Monday, August 23, 2010
Little Brudda's
Oh, St. Petersburg can wait!
I am really enjoying time with my sister and her family. While there is a bit to do, there's also just a lot of sitting around holding the babies (and feeding and changing the babies). Since they're still so young and small (born at 33 weeks and now one week short of their original due date), they still eat & sleep most of the time. When they're not sleeping, they're happy to be held or laid down on their backs or tummies without a fuss. But - they like clean diapers and are quick to let you know!
I am really enjoying time with my sister and her family. While there is a bit to do, there's also just a lot of sitting around holding the babies (and feeding and changing the babies). Since they're still so young and small (born at 33 weeks and now one week short of their original due date), they still eat & sleep most of the time. When they're not sleeping, they're happy to be held or laid down on their backs or tummies without a fuss. But - they like clean diapers and are quick to let you know!
I had Deb take advantage of my being here and sent her out with the 3 big kids for some fun this weekend. They really aren't hard to handle alone and as you can see, I managed a 'same time' feeding. They are on a good schedule and basically eat at the same time. In the NICU (hospital), they were only given so much time to eat and Deb has stayed consistent with that. They are good eaters, growing quickly and there's no guess-work as to whether they're really hungry or had enough.
Bart warned me that I'd better not go home with a tan. Don't worry Hon - I won't. Not a beach trip to HI but the weather is warm, humid and breezy. The sun shines and I stay out of it 'cause it's too hot for me otherwise. Unless I was at the beach, then I'd suffer through it or float in the surf!
Miss my girlies! They're doing good in Zurich with Dad and we've Skype'd and called and things are going smooth. Thanks to all who have helped with that.
OK - 'big' boys due home from school any moment and I'd better clean up - so we can clean up again later........
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Aloha! Took a wrong turn and
we aren't in St. Petersburg quite yet.
Last weekend, Bart said I'd need to post everyday in order to "finish" the cruise before I left for Hawaii.
Well, I got busy making lists, calling friends to help with the girls schedule, clean the house, make sure the schedule was sorted, finish laundry, write out laundry instructions (machine is diff. than your regular model in the US and all buttons are in German of course) and spend time with my family.
So, I have St. Petersburg, Latvia and Poland pictures loaded - just need to write a bit about it and post. From Makakilo!
I miss my family and it was hard preparing for the trip. We've become used to the girls being away for their 3-5 day school trips and of course, we're used to Bart being gone off and on but I never really go away anywhere. Especially since we moved to Switzerland. I've been away on a couple of one night trips with Mom and some friends and I did make a 4 day trip to NY 3.5 years ago but this is a 10/11 day trip (depends on which time zone you count it from).
However, they (girls) are in the very capable hands of Bart and they are glad that I am here to help. So am I. I am enjoying visiting with my sister, loving on her little twins and playing with the 'big' kids (3, 5 and 6). I've changed my share of diapers and help with feedings and doing various housework with my sister so we can 'relax' this weekend. I've been left alone with them already! and will do so again so she can take the big kids out this weekend to do something fun.
They don't have a vehicle yet to handle 5 car seats so it'll be good for her to get out with the kids. Yes, a van is in their near future.
Although I haven't been outside much yet, I've enjoyed seeing the sun through the windows and feeling the tropical breezes through the open windows. Zurich has been having it's cool, dreary August weather so the change of climate is nice, I'll admit.
Hopefully, I will download a few pic's for your viewing pleasure of these sweet little boys while I'm here. They are progressing well and I know my sis & bro-in-law are so happy they're thriving after the rough beginning.
I'm pretty happy to have had 2 nights of 6 hrs sleep as I try to adjust as quick as possible - the 12 hr time change is a bit of a killer but I think I'm doing pretty good. Went to bed at the same time as the kids last night!
AND, will get some of those other posts up and going. More later. Aloha!
Last weekend, Bart said I'd need to post everyday in order to "finish" the cruise before I left for Hawaii.
Well, I got busy making lists, calling friends to help with the girls schedule, clean the house, make sure the schedule was sorted, finish laundry, write out laundry instructions (machine is diff. than your regular model in the US and all buttons are in German of course) and spend time with my family.
So, I have St. Petersburg, Latvia and Poland pictures loaded - just need to write a bit about it and post. From Makakilo!
I miss my family and it was hard preparing for the trip. We've become used to the girls being away for their 3-5 day school trips and of course, we're used to Bart being gone off and on but I never really go away anywhere. Especially since we moved to Switzerland. I've been away on a couple of one night trips with Mom and some friends and I did make a 4 day trip to NY 3.5 years ago but this is a 10/11 day trip (depends on which time zone you count it from).
However, they (girls) are in the very capable hands of Bart and they are glad that I am here to help. So am I. I am enjoying visiting with my sister, loving on her little twins and playing with the 'big' kids (3, 5 and 6). I've changed my share of diapers and help with feedings and doing various housework with my sister so we can 'relax' this weekend. I've been left alone with them already! and will do so again so she can take the big kids out this weekend to do something fun.
They don't have a vehicle yet to handle 5 car seats so it'll be good for her to get out with the kids. Yes, a van is in their near future.
Although I haven't been outside much yet, I've enjoyed seeing the sun through the windows and feeling the tropical breezes through the open windows. Zurich has been having it's cool, dreary August weather so the change of climate is nice, I'll admit.
Hopefully, I will download a few pic's for your viewing pleasure of these sweet little boys while I'm here. They are progressing well and I know my sis & bro-in-law are so happy they're thriving after the rough beginning.
I'm pretty happy to have had 2 nights of 6 hrs sleep as I try to adjust as quick as possible - the 12 hr time change is a bit of a killer but I think I'm doing pretty good. Went to bed at the same time as the kids last night!
AND, will get some of those other posts up and going. More later. Aloha!
Friday, August 13, 2010
Finland
We woke in the morning and enjoyed beautiful, clear blue skies as we approached the port in Helsinki.
Was interesting to watch as they shoot a small cable from the ship that allows the dock workers to 'grab' the big ropes they use to tie off with. At each port, there were only 3 men/women needed to secure the 85,000 ton ship.
This port wasn't nearly as busy as Stockholm but there were a lot of boats "working":
This would be the beginning of our day for the next 5 ports - tour buses. A necessary evil. We were glad of the English speaking guides - really made each place more interesting and let's just say; the commentary in the various countries, about various countries, was educational and a bit amusing. By the end of the trip though, we were done with people and buses and schedules.
Landscape in Finland is well, a lot like Minnesota! As was Sweden (although Minnesota doesn't have as much of the granite these countries do). Rolling forests, fields, cows and lakes. Finland isn't the land of 10,000 lakes though - they have over 100,000! So they say.
We visited a medieval church on our way to Porvoo. The girls are sitting in the seat of shame. Can you imagine?
There are serious moments on many trips and a trip to this region (Baltic - former Nazi occupations/Communist governments) had it's share.
Their wheat crops were still a bit green. We also noticed how much thinner and shorter the wheat was than in Switzerland. Finland is a fairly dry country in spite of the cold and snow - and being surrounded with so much water. Fire danger is a big threat as almost all homes are made of wood (their biggest natural resource) and the lack of regular rain in summer.
We stopped for a while in Porvoo, the 2nd oldest city in Finland - established 1340 on the banks of a river which leads out to the Baltic.
Many of the old towns in the Baltic cities we visited had these rock cobblestones - different from those in Central/Southern Europe and thus a bit more challenging on the feet.
The red, wooden houses along the river in Porvoo. These are all rebuilt exactly like the originals - most original buildings by this time have been rebuilt due to fires over the centuries. 
From Porvoo, we headed back to Helsinki with a stop at an old estate for lunch. Lunch was held in an old, underground distillery. Great atmosphere and I for one, like my food. I tend to be the most adventurous eater but as I will disclose momentarily, I'm rubbing off on the rest of them.
A Lutheran church built into a granite hill - ceiling is of coiled copper - very interesting.
Ice-breakers sitting at the docks on summer vacation:
An imposing church build high on a hill dedicated to Tsar Alexander II. Steps were steep!
It was time to depart Finland and head to St. Petersburg. We enjoyed our visit and Bart and Rachel came to the same conclusion during our tour - voiced within 2 minutes of each other and sitting in separate seats. Each said "hmm, Mom (Susan) must be part Finnish." Our tour guide was trying to give us a picture of not only the country of Finland but also of the people. She described them as people who read alot, aren't interested in TV so much and don't find it necessary to make small talk. They say what they need to say in as few words as possible.
Now, while I can certainly be chatty, I tend to be so with people I know. I avoid occasions where I have to make small talk with people I don't know where I can. And in my immediate family, I tend to be the quiet one. Often to be heard telling them to "quit talking all at the same time, you sound like chickens!" This trait doesn't appear to affect my writing. I can ramble away with the best of them......
It was a beautiful night and "Formal" was the suggested dress for dinner. We weren't strictly "Formal" but cleaned up pretty nicely. :)
Beach on an island off Helsinki:
Waiter was kind enough to take our pic after dinner. I was very proud of my family! I ordered the escargot appetizer and they were pretty much aghast! But our waiter had brought two of the order and I said they couldn't go to waste and should be tasted at least. They were also buried under melted butter and garlic so what's not to like? I assured them that they were tender, not at all rubbery/slimey and not a trace of grit (I don't like mussels because they can be gritty). Rachel had to be bribed with $$ and thought they were OK but didn't want another. Bart said "I can't believe I just ate that" but he ate 3. Kendra decided she loved them and she and I ate the rest. The menu all week had a good variety to it and Bart was especially pleased with the quality of each piece of red meat he ate. :)
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Cruising out of Stockholm
Our ship was scheduled to depart at 5pm and with a big blast of the horn (that is LOUD!), it started to pull away. We found the departure/arrival at the docks one of the most interesting things about the cruise - we only missed the process if we were actually sleeping. During our final dinner on board we discussed the 3 questions "What was your favorite port?" "What was your favorite activity?" and "What was your favorite food?"
Answers
Rachel: Helsinki, hanging out, everything
Kendra: Gydinia, Poland, Arcade/ping pong, everything - esp. cheesecake
Bart: St. Petersburg, ping pong/relaxing, red meat
Susan: St. Petersburg/Riga, watching the ship/port activity, french toast (and everything)
Yes, I'm a geek. I liked watching all the different activity at the various ports and guess what? I took a lot of pictures so you'll get to see all these ports too! Piles of coal, cranes, newly built cruise-oriented customs/passport control buildings, etc...
Everyone was outside and at the rails to experience our departure out of Stockholm into the shipping channel that would lead us to the Baltic. They explained they had a Harbor Pilot onboard separate from the regular crew. This Harbor Pilot helps navigate the ship through the shipping channel which is complex and based on size of some of these ships, narrow to appearancees. The Pilot is then picked up and returned to port via a small "pilot" boat once the ship reaches the open Sea.
There were many boats in the Channel:
Some are little:
Some are BIG (This is a Ferry - carries auto's and passengers between Nordic/Scandinavian countries. It is equipped with restaurants and cabins as most trips have an overnight itinerary):
There were about 4 other cruise ships/ferries that departed at the same time as our ship. You can see the bouy markers for the Channel on either side of the following ship:
It took 4 hours to reach the open Baltic Sea - the scenery was spectacular.
There was also dancing:
AND shuffleboard (turns out I outscored my family. Not sure that's a record I'll post outside of this Blog.... :)
All along the way were beautiful cottages and houses. Beautifully painted and kept:
Look at those buildings - the classic American red barn came from somewhere, Yes? Based on the large number of red/white painted barns (some were houses) we saw in Sweden, those classic "American" barns were built by immigrant Swedish farmers a long, long time ago.
Little islands with their little cottages:
Some not so little but oh, so tempting - I'm ready to book a place for a week:
Almost to the Baltic and we see this little piece of lovely, undeveloped land sticking out. Sandy beach, shallow approach, woods - hmmm wonder if??? Nope, we have to move back next year. No vacation home in our future right now in Sweden. A lovely thought though.....
Answers
Rachel: Helsinki, hanging out, everything
Kendra: Gydinia, Poland, Arcade/ping pong, everything - esp. cheesecake
Bart: St. Petersburg, ping pong/relaxing, red meat
Susan: St. Petersburg/Riga, watching the ship/port activity, french toast (and everything)
Yes, I'm a geek. I liked watching all the different activity at the various ports and guess what? I took a lot of pictures so you'll get to see all these ports too! Piles of coal, cranes, newly built cruise-oriented customs/passport control buildings, etc...
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